Real advice, from a real girl, and she is not your mom or your
know you want to ask me.
cybersex cheating or harmless flirting? Iím guessing that it depends
on whom you married/date, but Iím taking a poll. What about other
things like porn and strip clubs? Is it cheating if you never swap
cybersex is cheating unless you have an open relationship (and you both
know itís open). Sorry.
is not cheating, but women really donít like to know that you look at
it. On the other hand, they also donít want you to keep it a secret
from them because then theyíll think youíre creepy because you sneak
around looking at porn. The best choice is to let your Significant Other
know that you occasionally look at porn just because itís a guy thing
(hence an incomprehensible requirement of your genes). Be sure to stress
that you donít do it often because the women are so fake and not nearly
as beautiful as she is or have as great a body as she has (say this
regardless of your S/Oís looks). NEVER leave porn around where she will
clubs fall into the porn category. They are OK for bachelor parties,
but not on a regular basis. Your S/O will probably suspect something
if you attend bachelor parties several times a week.
size matter? Seriously.
does not matter unless it is under 4 inches or over 9 inches. Over 9
is very serious. If it is over 9, you better let me check it out in
should a guy dress on a first date? I don't want to be either too
too casual. Where's the perfect medium that won't scare her away?
date dressing depends on where you are going. Choose attire that is
appropriate to the activity, or you will look really stupid. For basic
dating, such as dinner and a movie, you are generally safe with khakis,
polo shirt, and loafers.
should be clean with no food stains, rips, or body odor
clash colors (if you canít tell if you clash, wear a white shirt)
go shirtless if you have zits on your back
consider myself to be a semi-good-looking guy, but I really don't
seem to have the guts to approach women. I always find myself thinking
"She doesn't want to be hit on, I should just forget about it."
Even in places where hitting on people is generally encouraged (bars,
clubs, etc.) I can't seem to approach anybody. So my question is this:
In general, do women mind being hit on and flirted with? And how exactly
will I know who wants me to approach them?
donít mind being hit on by cool guys, but they hate being schmoozed
by losers. So, the first thing to establish is whether you are really
a semi-good-looking guy or a loser who has a high opinion of himself.
Take this short test: ďOn my day off, I would ratherÖĒ
shopping and drink chai lattes
A is acceptable only when watching Ice Skating. Answer C is always acceptable,
and no, it does not mean you are gay. As always, there are exceptions
to the rule, and these include slutty looking women with too much make-up,
too little clothing, and a bad dye job. They will almost always talk
to you for a free drink (and then ditch you later). The upside is that
these women generally have bigger breasts than those classy, intellectual
types. The other exception is if you are a total loser. Itís the average
losers, like semi-good-looking guys, who really take the hit. A 100%
loser is the kind of guy that always ends up with the best looking woman
in the room, and everyone says, ďhow the hell did he end up with her?Ē
women: try hitting on these women at bookstores and ask if theyíve read
the latest book of poetry by whoever is hot right now (ask the clerk
about who is hot). Another approach is to tell her that her tag is sticking
out of the neck of her blouse (or other clothing related faux pas).
Donít approach in bars.
women who are likely to have sex on the first date: approach in bars
and offer comments that make them believe that you think they are classy,
intellectual women who hang out in bookstores. Offer to buy her a glass
of champagne, tell her you love her outfit Ė is it Gucci? You saw one
just like it on the cover of Cosmo, ask her if she was the model for
Calvin Klein perfume (donít ask if she was a swimsuit model for Sports
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